Do you dream of being a cuckold? I know. The relief you must desire to be stripped of all that toxic masculinity. Scared that if she finds out you secretly want to wear her panties that she’ll leave you? Suffer from hiding all the shame and stigma of desiring to suck another mans cock? Do you now or have you thought to yourself, ‘my wife is gorgeous and sexy and deserves more than I can give her’? Many men think and feel this way. I can help you learn to speak with your partner, and maybe one day all of your dreams will come true.
HOW TO BECOME THE SISSY CUCKOLD YOU WANT TO BE
Men seeking advice from me about cuckolding will find that I am very adept at helping.
With all of my years in phone sex and on NiteFlirt, I know you. I know women. Afterall, I am one.
Despite the stigma attached to seeking help, men are realizing the benefits of becoming a sissy-it can actually benefit a marriage.
LOOKING FOR A SEXUALLY CHARGED CONVERSATION, NOT PHONE SEX?
Historically, men have been taught to suppress their emotions and deal with their problems on their own. However, this attitude has led to high rates of depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues among men. Seeking advice with Talk to Candy, on NiteFlirt or my own line can be a way to break this cycle and address these issues in a safe and supportive environment.
I am that safe place for you.
Sexy Mistress Candy allows men to explore their feelings and thoughts without fear of judgement. It helps them to better understand themselves and their relationships, and develop coping mechanisms to deal with life’s challenges. Even using NiteFlirt phone sex as means to enjoy escaping and fantasizing while masturbating can be great for you!
Sissy Phone Sex can also be beneficial for men who are struggling with those taboo desires.
My little Blackmail Exposure Risk Excitement DANGER junkies.
NiteFlirts Mistress Candy fucks with your head to the point that you beg Mistress NOT to expose you. In the next breath, you will stroke your cock until you’re begging me to BLACKMAIL you. LOL (as with any fetish-I never force a fetish onto anyone)
MISTRESS CANDY does sensual risk and dangerous exposure chats.
Once you connect with me via phone or chat on NiteFlirt, I will want to know exactly what fetish or blackmail you desire. Is it to be outed on social media? Is it giving me personal info that I will then google and find then show you how easy it is to get to you? Blackmail, Exposure, Risk Danger.
These four words make your cock hard. NITEFLIRT TRIBUTES get you MISTRESS CANDY.
Some ask, “does it turn you on Mistress to blackmail me”? Not really. Actually, I don’t give a shit about you. My pussy gets wet taking your pride, using you for money and watching/hearing you beg like to weak lil pussy you are! I LOVE watching your face turn from pleasure to fear. Mistress Candy will take you into the abyss with my sensual controlling female dominance.
I know you!
YOU enjoy the risk and danger associated with blackmail, exposure and ruination.
All of this play is consensual. Any provider that does anything to the extreme is suffering from a psychotic problem.
All of my play is consensual and assumed to be ‘fantasy’ therefore, once we are done, all of your information is deleted, and or removed from my websites, blurred and safe.
Candy.
WHEN YOU’RE PUSSY FREE AND DON’T WANT TO BE BOTHERED WITH YOUR COCK
This is “S” who has been a NiteFlirt client of mine for about 3 years. When he first came to Mistress he explained, he was a sissy but one who only likes women. As we began to know each other more “S” explained chastity was something he wanted. Unfortunately, his balls were too big! LOL
His balls just would allow her/him to wear the average cock cage. He had to buy a specially made one from a 3-d printer. Now, it’s been a year and “S” has seen a sizeable shrinkage in his cock and balls. More shrinkage in his cock than the balls. See!
Teeny Weeny
While you didn’t see it beforehand, I can tell you that it has shrunk!!!!
Mistress Candy is the one and only woman “S” calls on NiteFlirt and I appreciate watching the progress to being completely, pussy free!
Mistress Candy can control your cock and put you in chastity. Many ‘say’ they want to be controlled but as soon as the cum they forget it. I am willing to put you in chastity, monitor you and control your masturbation as long as YOU appreciate ME. $$$
WHY DO MEN CROSS-DRESS AND ARE YOU REALLY A BETA BITCH?
In my 17 years on NiteFlirt as a phone sex femdom and findom mistress and even many more years in and out of sex work, I have encountered a lot of men who cross-dress. The reasons they chose to be a cross dressers are many. Of course, wanting to feel or look feminine does not equate to one’s sexuality. In fact, many men while I escorted in my early 20’s were in fact very straight. Or, at least that was what I thought back then. I know better now how many of you like pussy but secretly you all want cock in your mouth.
Cross-Dressers come in many shapes, ages and economic backgrounds. Some married and it’s a secret to his wife, some single and who are secretly gay and won’t come out of the closet. Others, it’s just a way to feel closer to a female without having to invest in a real relationship and face the drinking problem, the closeted faggot issue or to have to ‘perform’.
For some it stems from an early age, usually around puberty. For some, it is a stress relieving behavior, albeit a bit misogynist to me. To have to be ‘femaleish’ to feel LESS stress insinuates that women have less stress. NOT TRUE BUDDY. Believe me, WOMEN HAVE AS MUCH STRESS AS MEN. Women worry about every little thing and believe me it’s exhausting. Nails, hair, skin, pedicures, manicures, intelligence, weight, family, sexuality, cancer, did I eat too much in front of him? Did my butt look big? God, I just sat down and now I have to file my nails. Work, family, kids, money, savings, extended family, am I good enough as a Mom, sister-in-law, am I wearing the right shit, etc…and you fuckers run a comb through your hair, tuck your belt under your belly and leave!
QUESTIONS FOR MY STRAIGHT CROSS-DRESSERS
So, this week, I asked 2 of my favorite cross-dressing phone sex clients, “why do you do it”? I wanted to know how it makes them feel, but moreover, I wanted to know:
Do you feel jealous or envious of women in some way and wearing panties and lingerie or make-up, wigs etc…is your way of trying to emulate that ‘pussy power’?
Is it because it just ‘feels’ better than man clothes? I mean seriously, who created men’s underwear? YUK!
Is it just style? Women’s lingerie and clothing is so much more colorful, fun and varied than men’s clothes.
My niteflirt customers said 1 and 2 and through in that ‘they wanted men to find them desirable’.
My follow-up question was then, If you want men to find you desirable, does that mean you are bi-sexual or gay? The answer was surprisingly, no. It was that women have POWER over men with their legs in stockings, their breast cleavage in sexy bras and high heels, and he wanted to feel like he had ‘power’. So, as I thought, it is the veneration of PUSSY POWER. The power we women hold.
SOME MEN DO IT BECAUSE WOMEN’S LINGERIE JUST FEELS GOOD on their cock
Understandable! But, let’s explore why someone would chose to hire escorts, use dominatrix’s and phone sex while dressed up, caged and drinking and doing poppers then bring his male ego to the table? Recently, I had a new client who would call but had very little to say. He only wanted to do poppers while caged or dressed and beg for and whine that he ‘thought about cock all of time’.
Without you guys actually using your words (remember that? use your words) I cannot get inside of your little head. I will never really know your hot buttons, and frankly your psychology. After all, I talk to hundreds of men a year each with his own special psychological reasons for doing or wanting what he likes. But, if you don’t move that cock sucking mouth of yours, I will never ‘get it’.
I felt that guy was used to buying women and getting what he wanted as a result and therefore, his cross-dressing was really a mental mind fuck he was performing on himself by being resentful of all the women he’s had to pay for attention. I still feel that way. What is your reason panty boy?
Do you secretly resent beautiful strong sexy women that you can’t have?
So, here’s my newest lil piggy. He texted FemDom Mistress C from New Zealand.
He is TRUE BETA MALE AND CROSS-DRESSER. All he could imagine doing was being respectful of Mistress. He paid for my time, he offered to do anything I wanted him to do and with no confusion about his role. He demanded nothing I didn’t give him for his money and respect. Lil bitchy demanding pretend cock suckers and beta males do not get far with Mistress Candy on NiteFlirt or anywhere else. Oh, don’t get me wrong, depending on my economic situation and mood (Cancer’s are mood driven) I may be patient and put up with your ego driven/confused beta male requests of my time, privacy and service, but it will eventually run out!
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Closed mouths don’t get fed.
When you contact me, remember that I have to get inside of your mind to understand how better to use you, get you addicted to me, and to keep you in my stable. One call, one chat session does not put you into a VIP position with me. THIS DOES! My Tommies’ income. Understand this is my take. His spending would be %30 more.
I love TRUE BETA BOYS, CROSS-DRESSERS AND MEN WHO SPEAK and share with me.
Mistress Candy is if nothing else a smart business woman. I want to build relationships with my clients and keep you coming back to me. Long term clients share more than just their fetish, the get a woman who understand them and shares it with them.
Do not call me and request special treatment or think you are anything but a bitch to me until you prove yourself otherwise. And, park your fragile male ego at the door!
I have taken over 1.6 million phone calls on NiteFlirt and my own line since 2008. Knowing this should comfort you, that you are not alone. Calling a phone sex FemDom provider isn’t something to be ashamed of. I’m not ashamed of offering this service, you shouldn’t be in calling me.
However, some people end up with a dissatisfying experience due to misscommunication.
So, here is a bit of information to help you get the most out of your call(s) with me.
If you’re calling me, I am making only one assumption. You want to have a phone sex call. Seems pretty simple right? Not if you don’t want one. What if you’re calling me just ‘get acquainted’ and didn’t plan on a fully satisfying call? I won’t know that unless YOU TELL ME. Before you blurt out your fetish or explain what you liked about my website specific to your interests, please say, “I am calling because I saw your listings or your website and I wanted to say hello for now”. OK. I will have my expectations set.
It is best not to state your highly personal sexual fetishes, interests, fantasies or curiosities in the form of a statement. eg. ‘I like anal play, self-bondage and jerk off instructions. Statements begin debates or are meant to inform but do not begin exploration, conversation or roleplays. A better approach would be, “I would love to hear us talk like my wife or x-gf coming in from a date and she surprises me with anal play and tells me to jerk off for her while she watches. That way, we both have a role, I know what you’re looking for and I know you desire a roleplay.
Phone Sex calls usually come in 4 forms. a. Building a fantasy together around a fantasy or thoughts you’ve had for some time. I hear you describe it, then listen…I chime in and add some of my own thoughts or ideas on the story. I add ‘color commentary’ to your interest. b. Roleplaying: We each play someone, it could someone you know for real or ‘characters’. Each of us knows BEFOREHAND whether it’s a going to be me topping you (my fav) or a BDSM call or whatever. We ‘pretend’ our characters by speaking/adlibbing a script. We both speak. We both act. I don’t sit there talking to myself while you say, uh huh and zone out rubbing your penis. LOL, please participate! c. You tell me what’s going on. Sometimes, it’s a real life issue and I listen and advise, ask questions or offer an opinion. This is common with my Therapy Phone Sex service. d. You reminisce about someone or something and go into detail while I imagine this scene and begin to add comments. Sometimes, you don’t want me to speak-that’s OK, I usually pick up on that because I can tell you’re not hearing me anyway.
So, in sum, those are the types of calls you can expect with Talk to Candy. I offered Therapy Phone Sex with paid communications for 10 years and found it very helpful and therapeutic for both myself and my clients. Marriage is a complicated institution. Having an open-minded intelligent woman to share things with can be easier than your family or friends.
Try me today.
“I’ve probably heard it before, but not from you”.
This is the number one topic in phone sex! Although I rarely share my personal life with my clients, I can certainly understand this subject matter. Are you a cuckold? Do you dream of your wife cheating on you? You can’t tell your neighbors or best buddy! You know why don’t you? They would start screwing your wife! Or, at least trying to.
You can tell Mistress Candy.
Talk to Candy about your cuckolding desires. Is it because you are impotent? Suffering from erectile dysfunction or a health issue has caused ED over the years? Certainly, you want her to be satisfied but she keeps telling you, it’s OK’. Do you have a small penis? Oh! Sorry! LOL
I understand the need for you to LOSE CONTROL. Losing money, or having your cash yanked from your hand-is SHOWING YOUR WEAKNESS. I can get inside of your head so that you will submit to Mistress with your devotion of MONEY. What is more erotic and risky than having me take that one thing we all need? MONEY.
It’s imperative we all need money to survive, but even if you have more than you need (asshole) and have worked hard for it…having MISTRESS CANDY take it from you-not knowing how much I wil rinse your wallet or for how long; that’s the risk and excitement and fear you seek!
FINANCIAL DOMINATION IS NOT A GAME
I never ‘pretend’ findom. The reasons are many but bitch when you come to Mistress and say, I want you to take my money, then OK, I am going to take it! $FINDOMtakesit my CashApp ID. FinDom isn’t just submissive phone sex, it’s an emotional drain. I don’t play because that’s a reverse mindfuck. I want your money! I want to get you addicted to ME. I want you beholden to my influence, blackmail or coercion. My line of work doesn’t earn retirement, you do! Beta FinDom bitches pay Mistress Candy or you can fuck off.
Buy this MP3. Why would you love financial domination?
I do cash meets in COS and surrounding areas for no less than $300.
My little Blackmail Exposure Risk Excitement DANGER junkies.
Are you a cuckold or a wanna-be cuckold sissy?
FINANCIAL DOMINATION