WHY DO MEN CROSS-DRESS AND ARE YOU REALLY A BETA BITCH?
In my 17 years on NiteFlirt as a phone sex femdom and findom mistress and even many more years in and out of sex work, I have encountered a lot of men who cross-dress. The reasons they chose to be a cross dressers are many. Of course, wanting to feel or look feminine does not equate to one’s sexuality. In fact, many men while I escorted in my early 20’s were in fact very straight. Or, at least that was what I thought back then. I know better now how many of you like pussy but secretly you all want cock in your mouth.
Cross-Dressers come in many shapes, ages and economic backgrounds. Some married and it’s a secret to his wife, some single and who are secretly gay and won’t come out of the closet. Others, it’s just a way to feel closer to a female without having to invest in a real relationship and face the drinking problem, the closeted faggot issue or to have to ‘perform’.
For some it stems from an early age, usually around puberty. For some, it is a stress relieving behavior, albeit a bit misogynist to me. To have to be ‘femaleish’ to feel LESS stress insinuates that women have less stress. NOT TRUE BUDDY. Believe me, WOMEN HAVE AS MUCH STRESS AS MEN. Women worry about every little thing and believe me it’s exhausting. Nails, hair, skin, pedicures, manicures, intelligence, weight, family, sexuality, cancer, did I eat too much in front of him? Did my butt look big? God, I just sat down and now I have to file my nails. Work, family, kids, money, savings, extended family, am I good enough as a Mom, sister-in-law, am I wearing the right shit, etc…and you fuckers run a comb through your hair, tuck your belt under your belly and leave!
QUESTIONS FOR MY STRAIGHT CROSS-DRESSERS
So, this week, I asked 2 of my favorite cross-dressing phone sex clients, “why do you do it”? I wanted to know how it makes them feel, but moreover, I wanted to know:
- Do you feel jealous or envious of women in some way and wearing panties and lingerie or make-up, wigs etc…is your way of trying to emulate that ‘pussy power’?
- Is it because it just ‘feels’ better than man clothes? I mean seriously, who created men’s underwear? YUK!
- Is it just style? Women’s lingerie and clothing is so much more colorful, fun and varied than men’s clothes.
My niteflirt customers said 1 and 2 and through in that ‘they wanted men to find them desirable’.
My follow-up question was then, If you want men to find you desirable, does that mean you are bi-sexual or gay? The answer was surprisingly, no. It was that women have POWER over men with their legs in stockings, their breast cleavage in sexy bras and high heels, and he wanted to feel like he had ‘power’. So, as I thought, it is the veneration of PUSSY POWER. The power we women hold.
SOME MEN DO IT BECAUSE WOMEN’S LINGERIE JUST FEELS GOOD on their cock
Understandable! But, let’s explore why someone would chose to hire escorts, use dominatrix’s and phone sex while dressed up, caged and drinking and doing poppers then bring his male ego to the table? Recently, I had a new client who would call but had very little to say. He only wanted to do poppers while caged or dressed and beg for and whine that he ‘thought about cock all of time’.
Without you guys actually using your words (remember that? use your words) I cannot get inside of your little head. I will never really know your hot buttons, and frankly your psychology. After all, I talk to hundreds of men a year each with his own special psychological reasons for doing or wanting what he likes. But, if you don’t move that cock sucking mouth of yours, I will never ‘get it’.
I felt that guy was used to buying women and getting what he wanted as a result and therefore, his cross-dressing was really a mental mind fuck he was performing on himself by being resentful of all the women he’s had to pay for attention. I still feel that way. What is your reason panty boy?
Do you secretly resent beautiful strong sexy women that you can’t have?
So, here’s my newest lil piggy. He texted FemDom Mistress C from New Zealand.
He is TRUE BETA MALE AND CROSS-DRESSER. All he could imagine doing was being respectful of Mistress. He paid for my time, he offered to do anything I wanted him to do and with no confusion about his role. He demanded nothing I didn’t give him for his money and respect. Lil bitchy demanding pretend cock suckers and beta males do not get far with Mistress Candy on NiteFlirt or anywhere else. Oh, don’t get me wrong, depending on my economic situation and mood (Cancer’s are mood driven) I may be patient and put up with your ego driven/confused beta male requests of my time, privacy and service, but it will eventually run out!
Closed mouths don’t get fed.
When you contact me, remember that I have to get inside of your mind to understand how better to use you, get you addicted to me, and to keep you in my stable. One call, one chat session does not put you into a VIP position with me. THIS DOES! My Tommies’ income. Understand this is my take. His spending would be %30 more.
I love TRUE BETA BOYS, CROSS-DRESSERS AND MEN WHO SPEAK and share with me.
Mistress Candy is if nothing else a smart business woman. I want to build relationships with my clients and keep you coming back to me. Long term clients share more than just their fetish, the get a woman who understand them and shares it with them.
Do not call me and request special treatment or think you are anything but a bitch to me until you prove yourself otherwise. And, park your fragile male ego at the door!
