HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF YOUR CALLS WITH CANDY

I have taken over 1.6 million phone calls on NiteFlirt and my own line since 2008.  Knowing this should comfort you, that you are not alone.  Calling a phone sex FemDom provider isn’t something to be ashamed of.  I’m not ashamed of offering this service, you shouldn’t be in calling me.

However, some people end up with a dissatisfying experience due to misscommunication.

So, here is a bit of information to help you get the most out of your call(s) with me.

1. If you’re calling me, I am making only one assumption.  You want to have a phone sex call.  Seems pretty simple right?  Not if you don’t want one.  What if you’re calling me just ‘get acquainted’ and didn’t plan on a fully satisfying call?  I won’t know that unless YOU TELL ME.  Before you blurt out your fetish or explain what you liked about my website specific to your interests, please say, “I am calling because I saw your listings or your website and I wanted to say hello for now”.  OK.  I will have my expectations set.
2. It is best not to state your highly personal sexual fetishes, interests, fantasies or curiosities in the form of a statement. eg. ‘I like anal play, self-bondage and jerk off instructions.  Statements begin debates or are meant to inform but do not begin exploration, conversation or roleplays. A better approach would be, “I would love to hear us talk like my wife or x-gf coming in from a date and she surprises me with anal play and tells me to jerk off for her while she watches. That way, we both have a role, I know what you’re looking for and I know you desire a roleplay.
3. Phone Sex calls usually come in 4 forms.  a. Building a fantasy together around a fantasy or thoughts you’ve had for some time.  I hear you describe it, then listen…I chime in and add some of my own thoughts or ideas on the story.  I add ‘color commentary’ to your interest. b. Roleplaying: We each play someone, it could someone you know for real or ‘characters’.  Each of us knows BEFOREHAND whether it’s a going to be me topping you (my fav) or a BDSM call or whatever.  We ‘pretend’ our characters by speaking/adlibbing a script.  We both speak. We both act.  I don’t sit there talking to myself while you say, uh huh and zone out rubbing your penis. LOL, please participate! c. You tell me what’s going on.  Sometimes, it’s a real life issue and I listen and advise, ask questions or offer an opinion.  This is common with my Therapy Phone Sex service.  d. You reminisce about someone or something and go into detail while I imagine this scene and begin to add comments.  Sometimes, you don’t want me to speak-that’s OK, I usually pick up on that because I can tell you’re not hearing me anyway.

So, in sum, those are the types of calls you can expect with Talk to Candy.  I offered Therapy Phone Sex with paid communications for 10 years and found it very helpful and therapeutic for both myself and my clients.  Marriage is a complicated institution.  Having an open-minded intelligent woman to share things with can be easier than your family or friends.

Try me today.

“I’ve probably heard it before, but not from you”.

Candy